Want over Have

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I have been wanting to write about so many things over the past few weeks. So many topics and so many thoughts about it, but I always kept it pushing for later because something that I had to do was always a long list. And that list just didn't seem to get over… in fact it kept getting bigger and longer.

Today morning when I woke up, I asked myself, “Why am I pushing something that I want to do, something that brings happiness?” And, I realized that I had been pushing my happiness away to get the important or ‘have to do’ things done. Please let me tell you I thoroughly enjoy my work. But this blog writing is for my pleasure, my happiness. It does not give me anything less but satisfaction that I am writing.

We all seem to push our happiness, our pleasure lower down in our to-do list and making sure that everyone around us is happy. But now I feel that when I am happy myself, it would be far more easier to spread happiness around me.

So I would make sure to schedule time in my to-do list for writing and you make sure that you schedule a time to check my blog.

Till then... Be happy!!

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  1. M ASeptember 30, 2019 at 3:44 PM

    Rings so close home. Keep going. Look forward to your post every day.

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